“Why not spend some time with your own thoughts? Here’s what I can recommend for optimising your enjoyment:
- Your goal should be to have a good time; that is, make it your intent to focus on events and aspects of those events that bring you enjoyment.
- When conjuring topics, choose ones that are both meaningful and pleasurable (eg, social events and accomplishments).
- Prior to the thinking period, write down these topics, so that you can glance at them if you feel like you’re having a hard time staying focused.
- Set out a specific time for your thinking breaks; that is, choose to engage in the activity when you feel motivated to think for pleasure, but stop if and when you feel like it’s becoming too cognitively demanding.
- As with all things, practise – you will get better over time and, the more you do it, the more you will anticipate thinking for pleasure to be enjoyable. ” Rémy Furrer
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This Daily Stillness has been recycled from previously published ones:
• #tds2295 A skill you can practise: being alone with your thoughts (Oct 10, 2021)
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